Strategies for Creating Positive Rivalries

Great rivalries are something to cherish and enjoy. A rivalry to be proud of involves three elements:

• Intense competition in games, meets or matches.
• Enjoyment of the opportunity to participate in the rivalry.
• Behavior by athletes, coaches, and fans that supports a positive sports environment.

A Positive Sports Environment that will enhance a rivalry includes:

• Living up to your own standards as the best version of yourself.
• Treating those involved with dignity:
  • Opponents – recognizing that a worthy opponent brings out our best.
  • Officials – acknowledging the difficulty of officiating and behaving respectfully even when there is a disagreement or missed call.
  • Teammates – supporting and encouraging teammates.
• Acknowledging and playing within the rules of competition.

How to Create a Rivalry to be Proud of:

• Cheer for your team, not against the opposition.
• Model treating opponents, officials, and teammates with dignity so others will follow along.
• When others are not behaving respectfully, remind them to help create a positive sport experience for all involved.
• Refrain from gloating if your team wins. Just enjoy it!